July 5, 2008

The Timing of God

I never cease to be amazed at God's goodness and tender loving care. Six months ago today my friend and neighbor passed away from brain cancer. Even though the grief is subsiding, sometimes I still look out the window and expect to see her sweeping the porch or mowing the lawn. With each passing day, though, I become more accustomed to life without her. I know she's with the Lord and knows no sorrow and I'm comforted by that thought.

However, my grief is nothing compared to that of her husband of over 45 years. He still lives with it each and every day. Thankfully, he still gets up and lives, but it's far from easy.

If V. was still alive she would be celebrating her birthday tomorrow. I knew this weekend would be very difficult for her husband since it's both a holiday without her and a time he would ordinarily be celebrating another year of her life. I wanted to do something special for him to help him through this time, but what?

Today, in God's perfect timing, the answer came. I write a column for TEACH magazine and a few months ago I submitted an article about the life lessons I'd learned from V. Today the current issue of TEACH arrived in my mailbox and guess what article was published this time! I was able to share the article about V. with her husband at just the right moment when he needed a little boost.

Lord, only you could care so much that you would carefully orchestrate the arrival of this article when it was needed most. Once again, you've shown that you care about every little detail of our lives. Thank you for helping a grieving friend in his hour of need.

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13 comments:

Chatty Kelly said...

I love stories like this one. We have such a big God, and yet he cares about every little detail of our little lives. And I just LOVE that about him! Even to know the number of hairs on our heads.

I'm glad God was able to use you to bless V's husband. Awesome.

Kathi~Lavender, Lace and Thyme said...

Loss is so difficult, my sister-in-law who was 50 passed last august...I'll never forget her faith and her husband reminding me...to be absent from the body is to be present with our Lord. If only everyone could have such strong faith.

Charli and me said...

You are a good friend, and you are right, God always comes through for us. What a beautiful story

My ADHD Me said...

I literally have goose-bumps from reading this post.
CK calls these God-Incidents. (not co-incidents)

breaths of the heart said...

I am constantly amazed at His timing! Thank-you for your sweet comment on my blog! This year He is teaching me how to "see" His blessings instead of passing over them!

Susie Harris said...

i know he will cherish that article.. You are a good friend... Susie H~

Rhoda @ Southern Hospitality said...

Hey, Bonita, thanks for coming by my table!

What a sweet thing to do for your neighbor friend. I know he will cherish that article you wrote.

xo,
Rhoda

Micca said...

God's timing is always right on time! Although, there are times I wished He owned the same watch as I do. :o)

I know your neighbor was greatly touched by your article. Those who have lost loved ones fear they will be forgotten. You proved she has not been forgotten and that meant the world to him!!

Hugs!

Beth said...

I few years ago I had experienced a truly rotten day. When I got home and opened my email, my Daily Devotion from Proverbs 31 Ministries was waiting for me.

And it was the one that I had submitted to them! They didn't tell me that it had been accepted, so it was a complete surprise.

I just staretd crying and thanking God for remembering me. I may have forgotten it in the midst of my doom and gloom that day, but God reminded me that he hadn't forgotten me at all.

Yep, you just can't beat God's timing!

Leslie said...

What a sweet story of God's faithfulness. I'm thankful that you are remembering V's dh during this difficult time. Grief can feel so lonely and I love this story showing that God is right there all the time.

Love,
Leslie

Mom to 3 Sons said...

Praise the Lord, friend.

Lysa TerKeurst said...

Wow... that is a great story. I'm sure your article will be your neighbor's greatest treasure today.

Thanks for your insights about my book.

Rose (AKA Mrs Betty Bargain) said...

Bonita, man with tears in my eyes I say what an awesome blessing you were to her husband that day! That is such a wonderful story and it never ceases to amaze me what an AWESOME GOD WE SERVE! Isn't He wonderfully good? Again, what a blessing your blog has been to me! I just love it!
Rose